For those new or who need a refresher, this was a poll I took and these were my initial thoughts on the whole atheism angle. As with the last time, a lot of this will be stream-of-consciousness in a way, so it may come out disjointed and crazy, but given that I meant to make this post close to 6 months ago, a lot has gone through my mind about, well, everything, so yeah.
First, this kind of post was an interesting read for me recently, and this image caught my eye - for those who aren’t clicking through or can’t do images, there’s a poster about different religious takes on “The Golden Rule”, and a person’s self-made atheist counterpart, which simply states “Don’t do the dumb shit that religious people do to each other.”
One of the main problems I’m having in the whole atheism…conundrum, I suppose, is the rank arrogance associated with it. I hate it for two reasons:
1) I’m susceptible to it.
Remember my final sentence in the original post? Completely absurd and completely moronic for me to say, especially since it runs contrary to my feelings on the matter. Do I not understand the mindset of friends who don’t think like me? Absolutely - whether it be on whether they want to vote for Obama or believe in g/God(s) or enjoy Nickelback, I’m not going to get it, but I can at least respect it (even if it means giving some otherwise good-natured ribbing about the latter). I inadvertently made it sound like I think those who do have religious inclinations are somewhat dumber than myself, which was a completely improper statement to make. I’m sorry I made it, more because I honestly don’t feel that way and meant nothing close to that. I never made a public apology, so I needed to rectify that.
2) It’s amazingly ridiculous and self-serving.
At the root of any belief system, a superiority complex exists. You think you have better movie tastes than the next guy, you read better books, you eat better foods at better restaurants. Even so, many of these religions are based, at their root, in a sense of humility. It’s accepting that there’s not only something bigger than you, but it’s so big that we can’t adequately fathom it. Submission is a huge part of Islam, accepting that Jesus Christ had to sacrifice himself so that sins could be forgiven is crucial to Christianity, etc. Submission is not easy, and in what is essentially a major life situation for many, many people, having to submit in such a way to such an abstract idea is a very large step.
Atheism is interesting in the sense that there’s no significant need to submit. There’s no higher power to serve, there’s no hierarchy of priests and mullahs and rabbis, there’s no guiding book on How to Live. It just is. Combine that with the sense (a sense that may or may not be completely accurate) that people come to atheism not so much from family or events or what have you, but from a more reasoned approach involving some questioning and - I hate to use this word in this context, but it’s the best one I can think of - logical reasoning, and it almost lends itself to some self-importance.
It’s frustrating - one of the biggest problems I have at this point is that I don’t feel as if I can really talk about it without it being an affront. It’s easy in blog form - no one’s forced to read this, after all - but much more difficult in a general discussion. I can’t tell someone “yeah, I don’t believe in god” without that carrying a lot of baggage. Yes, it’s a choice I’ve made, yes, it runs contrary to what you think, and yes, I’m not convinced your way is the right one. It shouldn’t be like that. On its head, no one’s going to bat an eye if they say they’re Catholic or Jewish - beyond the fact that they’re socially normal, it’s an acceptable end point to be at. Unfortunately, “populist atheism” as I’ve heard it described, has largely poisoned that well - the rank superiority complex you see from folks, whether it be a silly Darwin Fish or something more abrasive, essentially screams out “I have a belief and it is TOTALLY BETTER THAN YOURS.” It’s different than wearing a cross around one’s neck, which is simply showing devotion to a concept in my mind. To proclaim one’s lack of faith is a statement, and, in a society where the atheists are that 10% or less minority, a fairly controversial one at that.
Why? Why do we have to do that? The answer I hear from other atheists is that it’s simply a proclamation of faith - or, in our case, a lack thereof. But we all know it isn’t, and it’s dishonest to say otherwise. And, even worse, it does nothing other than poison the well for those of us who are perfectly content to leave well enough alone, believe what they want, and move on a bit.
Atheism isn’t activist for me. I’m not sitting here at my computer desk trying to convert you, I’m not handing out “Found rationalism?” pamphlets at the supermarket. At the end of the day, my beliefs in this area are an important part of my life, but they’re an important part of my life. Outside of sharing these beliefs with the general public, your religion doesn’t really bother me, and it’s unlikely to do so unless we hit some sort of crazy theocracy, which is about as likely as an atheist becoming president. Atheism, however, is very activist in what I’d consider atheist society, and that’s problematic to me, both on an ethical level (proselytizing is not a comfortable thing for me, even though I understand its requirement in many belief systems) and on a social level - they’ve SEEN THE LIGHT and must make sure logic rules the day.
It’s like the comments I’ve seen since the election has rolled around about how people are really hyper-focused on science and how some candidates “believe in science” while our current president apparently does not. I mean, the creationism/evolution issue is kind of ridiculous both in terms of basic reality and in how it has tainted the political discourse, but the amount of people who are truly “anti-science” are few, and are not in the government. Translate it to a spirituality thing - most religious people aren’t anti-science, either. They’re not anti-science, they’re not devoid of logic, and many have come to their places through some serious thought. Yeah, you have your share of people who are Religion X because their family is Religion X, but it’s not as if you go through an eternity without as much as a question about any of it. It’s incredibly arrogant to assume that those who believe in God are mindless automatons while the small minority of us who can’t be bothered with it have somehow reached some superior mental plane, just like there’s reasonable disagreement on whether universal health care is a good idea or whether the Mets are going to suck this year. Yes, you think your position is correct, and yeah, you probably spent a good deal of time thinking about it, but that doesn’t mean that your concept is the only one.
Ever since that post in October, I’ve been even more hyper-aware of spirituality than ever before. I’ll be general here, even though I’ve spent multiple paragraphs decrying that - it’s really incredible how those who are writing about being religious appear to be doing so from a point of view of enrichment and positivity, while even the most moderate of atheist writings I’ve seen have the air of superiority and arrogance with a healthy dosage of mockery. No wonder religious people paint nonbelievers as missing something when we act like curmudgeons who find no joy in life besides deriding other beliefs.
Why isn’t there a “Positive Atheism” movement? I know the saying, that organizing atheists is a lot like herding cats, but why does it appear to be impossible for atheists to celebrate their beliefs without having it be a statement or without being complete jerks to those who do believe? To the 75% or so of you reading who do have religious inclinations, how can those of us without celebrate our unfaith without making it a statement? Is that well poisoned beyond repair at this point? It’s hard to say.
I think I’ve gone on long enough. I have a lot more to say - maybe I’ll refrain from waiting 6 months for a follow-up this time.